By Anastasia Pinto
Hadar Rubin, a visiting scholar from Israel, affiliated with the Hebrew University of Jerusalem, came to Rome through a research exchange program with the Cardinal Bea Centre for Judaic Studies at the Pontifical Gregorian University. During her stay at The Lay Centre in the second academic semester of 2024–2025, what began as an academic pursuit quickly became a profound reflection on community life and the subtle intersections of tradition and contemporary life.
Hadar noted that her experience here offered more than just academic support for her research—it gave her a new perspective.
“Being in Rome showed me how many Catholics live their faith: deeply rooted, yet fully engaged in modern life. I saw how they live their beliefs in the world without being consumed by it.”
This insight resonated with her on a deeply personal level, especially as someone coming from Jerusalem. “Among the ultra-Orthodox Jewish communities there, it’s usually all or nothing—no internet, no movies, no smartphones. Life is kept separate from modernity. But here, I saw people who are profoundly devout and yet fully present in the modern world. That combination—faith and reality—was incredibly moving for me.”
Her first visit to Rome marked a significant turning point in her life. “Coming to live somewhere you’ve never been before is a little strange,” she reflects. Hadar had expected a more orderly environment—similar to what one might find in Northern European countries—but instead found Rome to be, as she jokingly put it, “wild.”
But for Hadar, being part of The Lay Centre community offered a striking contrast to the bustling energy of the city outside. “It was quiet—in the best way,” she said. “People were so mindful and considerate.” She shared that here she found an authentic community setting. “I’ve had roommates, and I’ve spent the last ten years living with my husband—but this was something different. Something special.”
Signs of Hope
One of the most powerful moments during Hadar’s time in Rome came early on, during the community retreat, she recalled. She had just arrived in Italy, carrying the weight of anger, sadness, and desperation over the situation in the Middle East.
“The retreat’s theme was hope. I came in with none, and somehow I left with a little more. That feeling stayed with me. It helped me through the year,” she said.
Another unforgettable experience was being in St. Peter’s Square the day the new Pope, Leo XIV, was announced. “I got there just in time and stood directly in front of the loggia. I had a clear view, and thanks to Father Rafael [Starnitsky], who accompanied me, I even had simultaneous translation. It was a once-in-a-lifetime moment,” Hadar added.
“But what I’ll carry with me most,” she continued, “is the example I saw here: that faith and modern life don’t have to be at odds. They can actually strengthen one another.”
Photo: Karina Gandur
